If you feel that you have been ditched by your friends and even after so many years can't get along with them then read this.
Friendship is a beautiful word! A friend is someone whom you might even regard to as your next family, which makes them a very important part of your lives. Friendship is considered to be the most loved relationship. Usually when people want to recall some good memories from their relationships, for the majority of them, friendship is the answer. But do all friendships succeed? Is there warmth and peace in every friendship? Do you get the required support from every friendship?
Answer: No!
Just like every other relationship, friendships can turn sour.
Is it painful, when this happens?
Ans: Yes! it is, very painful
Unfortunately, some taste this sourness. This agony can arise due to different reasons. It can be a very bad fight, or jealousy etc. But the worst can be the feeling of being deceived by the one whom you considered your dearest friend, for someone, whom you considered less significant between you and her.
For instance, there is a group of three friends. You, and 2 others. You are like the connecting link between your two other friends as they became friends because you are a mutual friend to both of them. Now the other 2 friends got in a bad influence. They started pushing you to make choices you may feel uneasy about or draw you into unhealthy situations. You confuse them with the people who try new things and help you grow. You even tried becoming them, but just could not sustain it for much longer and then you just saw yourself losing them. You tried to do those things but they made you feel embarrassed, anxious and restless. The more they changed, the more distant you felt and you almost lost them.
Such detachments do not happen consciously. It does not require any declaration; it just happens and all who are involved, know about it. It feels deceived more than being sad or angry. It feels like you have been cheated or ditched by those whom you trusted the most.
In such a situation, nobody is at fault. It's neither you nor them. Don’t feel sad or jealous. Just accept that in this journey of growth, the 2 people whom you have known from years have now changed, which means you all are not alike anymore and because you all have grown so different , you cannot be together furthermore!
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